First things first… talking dirty can seem really silly if you expect it to be like what you’ve seen in movies or on your favorite adult film. First thing you need to do is toss out any preconceived notions you may or may not have about it. Then you need to realize that dirty is what you and your partner make it. Just be you. Don’t act like something you are not because than it won’t come natural to you!
Second…You need to find your own way of talking dirty so it may be high pitched squeals, or whispers of dirty talk in your partner’s ears. You can also talk to yourself in your mind for practice before you ever even say it out loud. You don’t need only one way you can mix it up.
Third… Now some of us may or may not be in to swearing in our everyday life. Dirty talk is one time you can swear like a sailor and it may or may not make your partner hot and bothered. Also try thinking up some new terms or slang terms for old words. For example “vagina” sounds a bit medical, as well as “penis”. Why not using “pussy” “hot box” “twat” or “cock” “rod” “pole” “dick” , etc. Try reading some Penthouse Letters, Hustler letters or something along those lines to get some ideas for ways you can talk or terms you can use to turn each other on.
Fourth… Next you will need to practic
e, practice, and practice. Before I ever used dirty talk in any sexual relationship - I realized that I used dirty talk in my head all the time!! So all I had to do was get comfy enough with a guy to use this in my relationship. Now I won’t lie - the first time I ever used some dirty talk, I had already drank about 3 glasses of wine and had about 1 hour of foreplay with a man I was dating and was so horny that by the time we started having sex - the words were flying out of my mouth and I was wondering if I just said all that out loud! But it paid off for me because the guy LOVED IT, he loved how open and sexually “comfy” I was with myself - he loved how I would tell him what i wanted and how I wanted it and when I wanted it.
Talking dirty is also a GREAT form of communication and a good way of encouraging a man without insult to do what you’d like. No man can refuse a panting woman pleading in erotic bliss to keep licking that exact spot, or the “fuck me harder” plea.
Fifth… If you are a little nervous about talking dirty - Why not discuss with your partner some reasonable boundaries! Like tell your partner you will try it but no laughing at you, no judgment regarding what you say. In the heat of the passion anything come out of your mouth so just remember that!
Lastly… A few things you can say to get started. For example: “oh god, I just love the way your fingers feel inside me” “oh a little faster please” or “your pussy feels so warm and wet, I love how my cock feels inside it”. Go on to describe how the other person is making you feel, etc. Make sure to ask questions sometimes, it will encourage your partner to get in on the action, for example: “does my tongue feel good right in this spot?”Do you like it right here?” “Are you my little slut?” etc. Another advantage is that a lot of times you can get your partner to do all kinds of things they normally would be to shy or resistant to try just by a little dirty talk! Try it, I dare you!
Trust me it’s as easy as pie, and you will NOT be disappointed. So whether you choose to cuss like a sailor or talk sweetly to your lover I am sure you will be an expert in NO time at all! Remember your goal is always to make both partners HOTTER and hornier! Don’t forget to contact me anytime about anything you’d like at urbabygirlalley@aol.com . I’m dying to know about your Valentine’s adventures!
I promise you will love it!
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